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Re: Can't cope
« Reply #315 on: November 04, 2012, 10:32:14 PM »
So tired. Just want to stop trying and not care anymore. Want to stop feeling that nothing will ever be right again.

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Re: Can't cope
« Reply #316 on: November 04, 2012, 10:59:40 PM »
You will get there willows please be patient, we are all with you xxxx

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Re: Can't cope
« Reply #317 on: November 05, 2012, 02:50:37 PM »
You are a good caring person who is experiencing a really bad time. You deserve to feel better, and you have shown so much strength to get this far, that I'm sure you will get there. As bookletters said, we're with you.  %^%  %^% Best wishes. Michael. xxx

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Re: Can't cope
« Reply #318 on: November 06, 2012, 07:13:43 PM »
No words anymore :'(

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Re: Can't cope
« Reply #319 on: November 06, 2012, 07:18:24 PM »
I am sending you a big big hug willows, you are so brave, keep up the fight please xxxx

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Re: Can't cope
« Reply #320 on: November 06, 2012, 08:15:58 PM »
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Re: Can't cope
« Reply #321 on: November 08, 2012, 06:24:24 PM »
Don't know how much more I can take. My son was rushed to hospital on Tuesday in his university town as he kept passing out. Over Tuesday and Wednesday he passed out  11 times. I had to make the long drive on my own to be with him which totally broke through all my comfort zones. He has had numerous tests and has been sent home tonight but has to go for more tests as an outpatient over the next week. Problem with his heart :(

People keep asking me if I am alright.........I have to be done't I.....but I am obviously not giving off the impression that I am dealing with this very well. Their concern should be directed to my son, I don't deserve it.

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Re: Can't cope
« Reply #322 on: November 08, 2012, 07:45:53 PM »
Come on Willows, it is not only your son who is going through this. You are doing everything you can for him, and it is not easy by any means. I'm so sorry for BOTH of you. This is a dreadful situation to be facing with no support, so soon after your concerns for your daughter. I understand your focus, but please give yourself a little love too. I wish you the very best, always.  %^% xxx

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« Reply #323 on: November 08, 2012, 07:52:10 PM »
Feel for you Willows (((( hugs )))). S x x x x

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Re: Can't cope
« Reply #324 on: November 08, 2012, 08:05:31 PM »
I know this won't make you feel better but at least the doctors can give your son constructive help.

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Re: Can't cope
« Reply #325 on: November 09, 2012, 10:07:25 PM »
So tired of life. Crying inside, trying to be strong for my son on the outside. Failing :'(

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« Reply #326 on: November 10, 2012, 08:26:19 AM »
I do feel for you Willows.  I am also trying to be strong for a loved one and feeling guilty for failing. My thoughts are with you. S x x x x

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Re: Can't cope
« Reply #327 on: November 10, 2012, 11:03:24 AM »
Hi shaz
It is so hard to be strong for someone when you don't feel capable. The guilt is eating me up. My thoughts are with you. x

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« Reply #328 on: November 10, 2012, 11:14:42 AM »
My thoughts are also with you Willows. S x x x x

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Re: Can't cope
« Reply #329 on: November 10, 2012, 06:07:50 PM »
Willows and Shaz you are both being incredibly strong. You are in my thoughts. Best wishes. Michael. xxx  %^%  %^%