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[Zaf]

Even a minor incident can have a huge impact on how we feel Alstare, a few weeks ago I backed into someone in the supermarket car park (very minor bump at  very low speed) but it really set me back badly for a few days mentally; having a traumatic day yesterday will have affected your state of mind badly

[Alstare1974]

Yeah I was in bits last night and had a huge emotional breakdown. I wanted to end it all. I now have to wait for court case too etc. :-(. Thanks Zaf.

[Zaf]

Take it a day at a time Alstare, or even an hour at a time if you have to, there have been occasions in the past I have had to get through very difficult times 15 minutes at a time.  I wonder if it would it be possible to delay the court case if your doctor was to send a letter saying you werent up to it or would that just be prolonging the agony?

Lean on us here as much as you need to, we will help as much as we can xx

[Alstare1974]

Ithink I'd rather just just get it over and done with. Thanks for support.

[Zaf]

Probably best to get it over and done with if you feel you can tackle it, I tend to be a wimp and put off things I dont think I can hande

[Got]

Hi Alstare.

I have just read through this thread. I really feel for you mate. Something I have been holding onto for a while is the idea that I am not the only one. I have felt pretty much the way you have recently, I have wanted to kill myself and wanted to die, but couldn't because of my parents. I've spents hours upon hours feeling such low, dark depressing horrible thoughts, and I have also received little help from NHS. I have felt like the only one in this situation, and when I have met other people with depression I look at them and think, well..you have a wife, you still have love. I know how it is to feel so alone, but I promise you, you are not...and I am sure with time that you will get better and feel happier again. Just hold on in there and be strong, and you will come out the other side. There is a good future at the end of all this

Steve

[Alstare1974]

Ok so I probably couldn't feel much worse than I feel right now. So I went to the house to see what the score is and what I'll need to pack up on Saturday to find that bitch has taken all our joint stuff (furniture etc) worth over £3k plus my fridge freezer, my large flat screen tv and my xbox. She left all the cable for the xbox so that was all just pure spite. I feel numb. I'm so far past upset it's not true.

[Lol]

I'm sorry Alstare that sounds horrible. What are you going to do?

[Zaf]

Its horrible when someone is that spiteful

[Alstare1974]

I'm sorry Alstare that sounds horrible. What are you going to do?

Tell my solicitor and see what he says I guess

[Depina]

Really sorry, that's terrible, I feel for u Alstare.
Love and Hugs
Di XXXXXXXXXXXX

[Alstare1974]

Seeing my solicitor tomorrow so we'll see what happens tomorrow.

I'm being passed from one care team to another at tge moment so I'll be without a care coordinator for a few weeks :-(.

[Lol]

It would be good to put this in the hands of a solicitor wouldn't it? The relief to be able to let it go and still know it is being dealt with will be great.

It is awful that you should have to wait any length of time for a hand over to take place between your care teams. How frustrating. Gaps in care should never happen but they do so often don't they! You feel stranded in limbo.

[Alstare1974]

Am fed up.  Life has absolutely no joy for me at the moment. I'm a worry and a burden for my parents. I just don't want to be here.

[Depina]

It will pass, hope you can sleep well,relax, and wake up feeling better.
Love Di XX