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cornish

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« Reply #60 on: September 25, 2011, 09:24:53 PM »
dont feel guilty, just re read my earlier post, u have that suicide card if you wish to play it but please try getting help first and give that a chance, then make a choice, i know its far easier said than done but please just consider getting more or different help.

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« Reply #61 on: September 25, 2011, 09:25:52 PM »
Alistare

You may feel alone but there are people that care,tomorrow there could be a small light, a glimmer of hope for the future. Where there is life there is hope.
I am sad that you feel so alone, have you anyone at the end of the phone that you could talk to?
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« Reply #62 on: September 25, 2011, 09:43:08 PM »
Alstare you are not alone. We are here for you. You have control. Please go to your GP and explain how dispairing you feel. Keep talking to your parents and talking to us. Hold on. You will beat this and you will be happy again.

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« Reply #63 on: September 26, 2011, 09:34:04 AM »
We are all here Alstare,  lol is right, you ought to see your GP and tell him how you feel if you possibly can,  it is possible to overcome depression, please do keep believing that  &*(
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« Reply #64 on: September 26, 2011, 10:50:40 AM »
Alstare how are you feeling today? Could you manage to get out and get some fresh air? Do you have somewhere near you that is nice for a short walk? some water maybe? Somewhere different and tharaputic to help you to think? Maybe take a journal with you and get some thoughts down/ or just a newspaper? Do your parents or a nieghbour have a dog that you could walk? I know that you miss your pets terribly. Would it be possible for you to have a dog at your parents house?

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« Reply #65 on: September 26, 2011, 11:30:50 AM »
My parents have two dogs which I do walk most days. It's not the same though as they're not as affectionate as my dog was and he used to sleep on my bed but they're not able to get to the room I sleep in. Wife won't let me have my dog.

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« Reply #66 on: September 26, 2011, 12:07:20 PM »
thats a real shame Alstare,  would it be possible to take your own dog out for walks occasionally do you think?
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« Reply #67 on: September 26, 2011, 01:11:16 PM »
Nope my parents address is 60 miles from the house we're selling and I'm pretty sure she's taken the dog up to tge midlands. I doubt I'll ever see him again.

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« Reply #68 on: September 26, 2011, 06:29:18 PM »
Thats such a shame, do you think your parents would let you get one of your own?
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« Reply #69 on: September 26, 2011, 06:53:58 PM »
Yeah they would if I was going to live here forever. Don't know where I'll end up living so it wouldn't be fair just in case.

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« Reply #70 on: September 26, 2011, 06:56:12 PM »
Thats very true and caring of you, I know it wouldnt be the same but perhaps you could volunteer to walk dogs for one of the rescues?
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« Reply #71 on: September 26, 2011, 07:47:19 PM »
I miss him on my bed at night. Ive always got my folks dogs to walk.

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« Reply #72 on: September 26, 2011, 08:06:48 PM »
Thats a difficult one Alstare, I would miss my dogs too :(
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« Reply #73 on: September 26, 2011, 10:25:45 PM »
Less than 12 hours until I see combat stress. Eek.

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« Reply #74 on: September 27, 2011, 11:18:29 AM »
As I suspected, nothing they can really do for me. Their centres are designed for PTSD which I don't have.