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Re: No goals, No motivation, uninspired and what it means to be a man?
« Reply #15 on: August 14, 2012, 04:00:13 PM »
Then why not try something else?
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Re: No goals, No motivation, uninspired and what it means to be a man?
« Reply #16 on: August 14, 2012, 04:04:35 PM »
Try what? What is it that so great that I should try? and even when I pick something to try, what value am I going to get out of it...i.e is it going to be worth me even trying in the first place.

I hate the fact I worked hard and school and got good job that I work hard at just to work hard until Im in the grave.
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Re: No goals, No motivation, uninspired and what it means to be a man?
« Reply #17 on: August 14, 2012, 04:22:53 PM »
Stop work, backpack around the world, live in a commune, give rather than expect to recieve, get a motorhome and do what you feel like doing and do odd jbs to pay your way, become a Buddhist monk, the list is endless.  Just because you worked hard to do something doesnt mean you have to keep doing it
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Re: No goals, No motivation, uninspired and what it means to be a man?
« Reply #18 on: August 14, 2012, 04:30:39 PM »
I agree with you, Joker, and I feel exactly the same.  I have nothing to look forward to, no job to go back to because everyone hates me (but they are w******s anyway!), I am fed up with grinding away and suicide is a pleasant though at times.  I feel so damn angry at times and have to stay medicated all day and night. 
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Re: No goals, No motivation, uninspired and what it means to be a man?
« Reply #19 on: August 15, 2012, 08:33:28 AM »
Quote from: Zaf on August 14, 2012, 04:22:53 PM
Stop work, backpack around the world, live in a commune, give rather than expect to recieve, get a motorhome and do what you feel like doing and do odd jbs to pay your way, become a Buddhist monk, the list is endless.  Just because you worked hard to do something doesnt mean you have to keep doing it

I have a mortgage that I cant get out of because its in negative equity and Im tied to it for the next 20 years. So I cant see how I can fund backpacking around the world, and I dont even like the idea of it.
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Re: No goals, No motivation, uninspired and what it means to be a man?
« Reply #20 on: August 15, 2012, 08:40:57 AM »
Life is so boring, same things everyday I dont want to be part of it. I dont want anything, I just want out of here.
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Re: No goals, No motivation, uninspired and what it means to be a man?
« Reply #21 on: August 15, 2012, 10:22:32 AM »
A few months back I give away all my books, some clothes, old tv, coffee maker and other house hold items to charity. I feel stupid now.
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Re: No goals, No motivation, uninspired and what it means to be a man?
« Reply #22 on: August 15, 2012, 10:45:36 AM »
If you havent already seen your GP I would suggest doing so, if you cant be bothered then you arent interested in helping yourself
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Re: No goals, No motivation, uninspired and what it means to be a man?
« Reply #23 on: August 15, 2012, 10:51:39 AM »
I have seen my GP over 10 times already. He has prescribed me 150mg (added 50mg last week) of sertraline.

I have done a CBT course online and have had a 8 week talk therpy course, none of which helped me.

I have also done mindfulness by Jon Kabat Zinn. and got his book.
I wish I knew who to turn to.

Thanks
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Re: No goals, No motivation, uninspired and what it means to be a man?
« Reply #24 on: August 15, 2012, 10:55:44 AM »
The only thing I can suggest is to see a different counsellor, I had two that were useless, one that did a little good and the most recent absolutely fantastic and put me on the road to recovery
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Re: No goals, No motivation, uninspired and what it means to be a man?
« Reply #25 on: August 15, 2012, 11:56:50 AM »
oh i see. I will give it a try.

thanks
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Re: No goals, No motivation, uninspired and what it means to be a man?
« Reply #26 on: August 15, 2012, 08:30:28 PM »
I need help.
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Re: No goals, No motivation, uninspired and what it means to be a man?
« Reply #27 on: August 15, 2012, 08:38:39 PM »
you need to tell your GP that whatever meds you are getting arent working, if you get no success there change your GP
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Re: No goals, No motivation, uninspired and what it means to be a man?
« Reply #28 on: August 19, 2012, 01:03:12 PM »
I gvie up
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Re: No goals, No motivation, uninspired and what it means to be a man?
« Reply #29 on: August 19, 2012, 05:48:20 PM »
Im going to quit my job and move back home with mum and dad,
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