other people moaning

[zeemiller]

does anyone else on here get fed up with other people around them moaning ????
sometimes i just cant cope with it and struggle as think to myslef i have my own problems to sort without others going on etc
others dnt seem to understand that when someone suffers from depression they cant cope with someone moaning about life at them etc.
do many others get in this situation and if so how do u cope etc????

[Zaf]

I find when I'm depressed all people around me make me irritable

Z xx

[Buttercup]

When I am depressed i get very irritable when people are around me

[Ezel]

When I'm depressed people who constantly moan drive me crazy particularly when they are moaning about stupid things and things that can easily be put right.

[KateG]

Me too, I'd make a good hermit

[Sweetpea]

I feel the same too.

S x

[Got]

No I rarely get irritated. I sometimes feel jelous because they dont have the same pronlems. Then again, there are people with worse problems than me.

[Buttercup]

That's true Steve. I always feel guilty when I think of the problems others face compared to me.

[Sweetpea]

Very true, I always think back to when my son was born with problems and I thought my world had ended and he was rushed to GOS hospital.  Being there really opened my eyes that there are so many children and people worse off than me.

S x

[zeemiller]

i have found that even times when not depressed other ppl can make me depressed again just seems like very few ppl have nothing to moan about and constantly think of something, its like always have to have answers to other ppls problems.
ppl irriate me a lot.
is it just nateral that ppl moan a lot eg is it just how life is????
when depressed it makes me worse n when not depressed im scared as it sets me off with depression again so cant see to win eitherway

[ifeelcursed]

I have just got myself a flat for myself, never lived on my own but I feel optimistic about the prospect of living alone, I too get irritated by people sometimes and very often find I need time by myself.

[zeemiller]

i found moving out of the family home helped as the irritation from being with ppl all the time and having no quiet time made depression worse and i became aggressive. have been in my flat since oct 2010 and have enjoyed having proper quiet time and being able to choose if to have ppl near or not unlike at the family home. did feel lonely over winter and xmas when not with others but appart from that moving in on own a good idea

[CharleysAngel']

I think that everyone is entitled to moan. But what annoys me is when someone says ' and you think you have problems' that REALLY winds me up because my problems and issues have always been worse than anyones who have ever said that to me.

[chelliiee]

I have this problem too there always has to be someone that has to moan about something I find very frustrating and irritable, sometimes I could become aggressive when someone moans about their lives and issues but when I'm in a crisis they don't want to know?? I will become very aggrivated.

[StrugglingOn]

So true that people moaning drags you down - but having read this thread, I feel awful for posting my own problems earlier :-/