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a works Dr told me to commit suicide
« on: January 08, 2012, 08:08:09 AM »
as the title says i think theres a thread where i mention this, and it's been playing on my mind thinking about it all the time, My solicitor knows via e-mail, my dr knoes via an appoint right after the event and my councilor knows as i was on a 8 week course at the time. and my wife knows but TBH apart from the e-mail she wrote to the solicitor it was just one more piece of &$%+ on top of all the rest. 


but its getting to me it came right out of the blue,


she asked me what i do to cope with the pain and apart from the medication and my variation of ti che we as a family go to church every sunday and  try to go tuesdays as well.

i said i get alot of siritual comfort for my pain, she was nodding and smirking a little, then right out of the blue she said

"well if you get that much help from god why don't you commit suicide and be reincarnated and come back as a proper human all fixed"

i just froze then she comes over to me as i am waiting on the bed to be examined and shes says a bit sheepishy head cocked to one side have you tried to commit suscide before, i said what do your notes say.

which i have tried.


then she went on to abuse me and by twisting a pulling  my body pushing it, pushing my head down being really nasty, and not stopping when i asked, i just wanted to get out as fast i as could which meant being compliant, her hands had a strong grip and i could not get her off my back, i am nearly 6 foot and 16 stone but she had me i agony, and i this has been playing on my mind,


going to see My Dr on Monday for a general health check  i will mention it again.


i keep getting flash backs of it what are these i can be doing something anything then it just there that moment her face , and i get the 2 bastards who did this to me along in there with her i it's like i am stunned and i want to hide.  is this right. if i am in the car i just pull over anywhere and sit, then as quick as it comesit's gone.


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Re: a works Dr told me to commit suicide
« Reply #1 on: January 08, 2012, 08:24:28 AM »
wow, that just isnt on.

dont really know what to say
well i know what i want to say but i really dont think its appropriate



i had a similar sort of experience but without anything physical, it was all mental abuse/ trauma cause by a specialist that gave a crappy report, ignored me and went for a kit cat and coffee half way though the appointment.   virtually no one believes me
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Re: a works Dr told me to commit suicide
« Reply #2 on: January 08, 2012, 08:59:08 AM »
that is absolutely disgusting, if she is a qualified medic I think you should complain and get her struck off  >:(

I certainly would keep mentioning it to your GP and anyone else you think could get something done about such an unfeeling stupid woman.
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Re: a works Dr told me to commit suicide
« Reply #3 on: January 08, 2012, 09:37:50 AM »
I'm sorry, that must have been an awful experience for you. If my doctor had treated me like that I would be very upset. Not that she would because she is lovely but this is exactly the reason why I refused to see anyone else because I don't trust them.

Do keep mentioning it to your GP and tell them how it has effected you and keeps playing on your mind. She should definitely be struck off.

Also she should learn abit more about religion before making such nasty and insensitive remarks again, because what she said is factually incorrect.
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Re: a works Dr told me to commit suicide
« Reply #4 on: January 08, 2012, 12:15:50 PM »
This is absolutely horrifying! Don't let this go LR it's a shocker   "£"
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Re: a works Dr told me to commit suicide
« Reply #5 on: January 08, 2012, 08:12:50 PM »
Definitely needs reporting as it's abuse and discrimination due to your faith.  It's my faith that helps me when I feel low.  Mind you the elders at my church annoy me as they have the attitude that depression / mental illness is the devil's work and uses it to attack when a person is depressed.  What makes it worse is one of them is a doctor so should know better
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Re: a works Dr told me to commit suicide
« Reply #6 on: January 08, 2012, 08:50:13 PM »
Shocking.  >:(

Report her to the GMC, or mention it to the solicitor. OR do both!!

If that idiot gets near more patients.....

Im so sorry for how you were treated. :(
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Re: a works Dr told me to commit suicide
« Reply #7 on: January 08, 2012, 10:22:32 PM »
Thanks all going to mention it again to my doctor, and again to my councilor when my session come round again, the flash backs are getting worse, if i was well she would have not even thought about doing what she did, i am strong but this is really affecting me the flashback thoughts keep coming into my head....


Cheers all LR good night having a late one tonight. just took some meds so hopefully a restful night and will not have any bad dreams.


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Re: a works Dr told me to commit suicide
« Reply #8 on: January 09, 2012, 07:43:31 AM »
Couldn't believe what I was reading, thats totally horrendous.  Something must be done about her, she needs to be struck off.

(((())) hugs for you.

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Re: a works Dr told me to commit suicide
« Reply #9 on: January 09, 2012, 12:13:59 PM »
thats horiffic to read, coming out of a trained professionals mouth. Im sorry for what you have been told that, and the thoughs going through your head now must be horrible to deal with.
when you get yourself to a good place again, think about taking action against them, they cannot say things like that!
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Re: a works Dr told me to commit suicide
« Reply #10 on: January 09, 2012, 12:30:35 PM »
That is not on at all.

Report the GP!  Doesnt deserve to be qualified.


That would have set off my violent side and decked the GP is it was me  ::) :-X
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Re: a works Dr told me to commit suicide
« Reply #11 on: January 12, 2012, 02:48:10 AM »
Quote from: doublep on January 09, 2012, 12:30:35 PM
That is not on at all.

Report the GP!  Doesnt deserve to be qualified.


That would have set off my violent side and decked the GP is it was me  ::) :-X


TBH i think that was she was after, to see if i could, but being disabled it all my lower half i was stuck there, and had to take it trapped i was.

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