Author Topic: How to stop self harm?  (Read 19701 times)

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Re: How to stop self harm?
« Reply #15 on: December 20, 2011, 06:46:02 AM »
Luckily at work I can't do anything, well I could on site but I'd be wearing that much ppe and bubble wrap it would be hard to.

Soon as I get home I think the same!

Been first aid trained, so I'm doing it safely.. just wish I didn't resort to it.

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Re: How to stop self harm?
« Reply #16 on: December 21, 2011, 09:22:55 PM »
i have to wear loads of ppe too :(

well at least u know how to deal with it all safely.
If you think things can't get worse it's probably only because you lack sufficient imagination.

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Re: How to stop self harm?
« Reply #17 on: January 07, 2012, 01:08:36 AM »
Over xmas and new year I didnt do anything.. not sure why

Started again this week though, as I have been feeling really low.

Oh well

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Re: How to stop self harm?
« Reply #18 on: January 07, 2012, 01:25:30 PM »
Is that because you felt happier over Christmas and New Year doublep?

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Re: How to stop self harm?
« Reply #19 on: January 07, 2012, 01:52:41 PM »
Unfortunately no, I've got a full sleeve tattoo to do, so told myself to stop

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Re: How to stop self harm?
« Reply #20 on: January 07, 2012, 02:00:38 PM »
Unfortunately no, I've got a full sleeve tattoo to do, so told myself to stop

I see. Is there some sort of other motivational gain that you can believe in to help you to stop?

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Re: How to stop self harm?
« Reply #21 on: January 07, 2012, 05:45:53 PM »
Not sure to be honest.
Xmas was a weird time for me, because my mum and uncle know about it.
everyone has just accepted it, so if I feel the need to do it, I will

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Re: How to stop self harm?
« Reply #22 on: January 08, 2012, 11:12:23 AM »
Do you believe that if they were horrified by it you would not do it so much/at all?

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Re: How to stop self harm?
« Reply #23 on: January 08, 2012, 11:18:17 AM »
To be honest, I don't think anything anyone says would stop me

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Re: How to stop self harm?
« Reply #24 on: January 08, 2012, 11:20:02 AM »
i feel exactly the same way, there is nothing that could stop me from cutting
If you think things can't get worse it's probably only because you lack sufficient imagination.

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Re: How to stop self harm?
« Reply #25 on: January 08, 2012, 11:22:54 AM »
What I need to do, is elsewhere. So my arm can fully heal, and get my tattoo to cover it

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Re: How to stop self harm?
« Reply #26 on: January 08, 2012, 11:31:56 AM »
just make  sure your careful where ever you decide to do it and consider body movement into the healing of any of those areas
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Re: How to stop self harm?
« Reply #27 on: January 08, 2012, 05:26:45 PM »
Any ideas? I was thinking leg, can't be visable to others

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Re: How to stop self harm?
« Reply #28 on: January 08, 2012, 05:48:55 PM »
anywhere fleshy or muscly. that way it keeps something between cuts and veins / arteries.   where ever you decide to do it, you need to learn about that area of your body, well i do that because im need to know everything, just play safe my friend, i dont really want to talk about at too much at the moment after what ive been doing to my self recently.
If you think things can't get worse it's probably only because you lack sufficient imagination.

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Re: How to stop self harm?
« Reply #29 on: January 08, 2012, 08:20:58 PM »
I struggle for many years with self harming as it was the only way I knew how to release emotional pain/  Things that helped me to stop were throwing darts at a dart board, smashing crockery that I was going to get rid off anyway and chuckingpillows or cushions.