Hi Debbie,
Welcome. I hope you find something of use here in the forums, whether that's reassurance, advice or you simply want to vent your frustration. People here will listen and offer helpful advice. That said, there's no substitute for your own GP, psychiatrist or whatever other care team you have in place. By all means get info from here and use it to question your care team to find out if you're getting the best treatment you can. People have probably tried the medications your on. Some will have experienced the same side effects, others will experience different symptoms. There's no right or wrong, other than what feels right for you and that might take a bit of time and some experimentation on the part of the care team.
On a personal note, I've been on citalopram, fluoxetine, mirtazapine and several others including combinations for major depressive disorder, generalised anxiety disorder and neuropathic pain. I'm currently taking a combination of duloxetine and pregabalin with mixed results. In a rambling way I'm trying to say that whatever symptoms and experiences you are having, you are not weird or a freak or unique. You are not alone, so please share and use the forums to help yourself, and, in turn, your experiences might help others too. Once again, welcome
