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lost rolex

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Encouragement from my wife, who Encourages you
« on: March 31, 2012, 07:44:26 AM »
i find i do nothing and i am getting good at that, i drift off but i am still moving around i drift from one room to another checking on the kids the wife, my mind sometimes has all but given up on me  ;D are you doing anything for enjoyment are you looking as good as you can, she really puts her foot down sometimes a few examples

1, takes all my old clothes i wear all the time and chuck's them out. :o

2, buys me new clothes to wear only  :o

3, make's me going shopping with her  :o

4, tel's me to smarten myself up, i can feel how i want inside but she has to look at the outside.  :o ;D

4, gets me to shave (see above)

5, invites me to all the schools doo's  :o

6, made me contact a mental charity for extra help  :o

7, gives me task's to do around the house  :o

8, encourages me to just be me for a couple of hours  :o :o

9, tell's me to enjoy what i am doing with the children try to feel the enjoyment

10, try's to encourage my old hobbies  :o

i do respond to her word and i do try to help and get the good feelings to last so post who/what gives you a lift. and remember it's hard for them to.

LR


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Re: Encouragement from my wife, who Encourages you
« Reply #1 on: March 31, 2012, 08:06:36 AM »
Wow, your wife is so supportive  :) that must really help you.

I have a fantasic husband, who picks up the pieces and holds the family together when I've been really down. When I'm high he helps control me, ( now we know). I really don't know where I'd be without him.
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Re: Encouragement from my wife, who Encourages you
« Reply #2 on: March 31, 2012, 11:24:26 AM »
You have a fantastic wife by the sound of it LR.  I am very lucky too my OH Craig is very good too.

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Re: Encouragement from my wife, who Encourages you
« Reply #3 on: April 01, 2012, 10:26:39 AM »
You.ve got one lovely wife there, so strong and supportive. My OH is brilliant when I'm down with looking after the kids and the house but I get most of my emotional support on here as he don't really understand.
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Re: Encouragement from my wife, who Encourages you
« Reply #4 on: April 05, 2012, 08:06:10 AM »
My wife gives me a lot of encouragement. But i think she is also now suffering with depression (not severe), which is to be expected if she has to put up with me :) Ive just got sod all motivation at the moment.
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Re: Encouragement from my wife, who Encourages you
« Reply #5 on: April 05, 2012, 08:34:27 AM »
That must be hard for you, knowing your wife is suffering to.

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Re: Encouragement from my wife, who Encourages you
« Reply #6 on: April 08, 2012, 05:35:00 PM »
I dont have anyone except Shaz and the people here
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Re: Encouragement from my wife, who Encourages you
« Reply #7 on: April 08, 2012, 05:47:11 PM »
Nobody. I have nobody and no purpose.
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Re: Encouragement from my wife, who Encourages you
« Reply #8 on: April 08, 2012, 05:59:36 PM »
god stevie you sound like me! I am sorry to hear this but you are a very kind and encouraging person who has helped me loads today
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Re: Encouragement from my wife, who Encourages you
« Reply #9 on: April 08, 2012, 06:05:01 PM »
Stevie and Alex you may not have people right near to you but you have us here and we care.  I know this is not the same  but you are not totally alone with us.

 &*( &*( for you both.

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Re: Encouragement from my wife, who Encourages you
« Reply #10 on: April 08, 2012, 06:48:28 PM »
thanks Shaz
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Re: Encouragement from my wife, who Encourages you
« Reply #11 on: April 25, 2012, 06:59:57 PM »
I have nobody. I drift through life in fear of everything
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Re: Encouragement from my wife, who Encourages you
« Reply #12 on: April 25, 2012, 07:28:30 PM »
We are here if we can help at all

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Re: Encouragement from my wife, who Encourages you
« Reply #13 on: April 25, 2012, 07:45:51 PM »
I second that, we are here if we can help.

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Re: Encouragement from my wife, who Encourages you
« Reply #14 on: April 26, 2012, 10:00:48 AM »
I have my OH who is lke a rock when i'm down, she drags me out of bed even when I can't be bothered "£" I don't know what i'd do without her. I find this place helps as well.
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