Drained

[little-laura]

I was on a voluntary management team for a 900 attendance conference until today. I was voted off as they claim I failed to meet some of the aspects of the role blaming me for issues that were not just my fault and serveral were not my fault but another member of the team... But the other members are so close and cliqueie that no matter what I said they believed them over me and I could do nothing

I cried so much when I was voted out and feel hurt and angry but most of all I am now starting to really doubt myself and feel really self conscious

I suffer from depression and am on some strong meds... I feel like a failure

[Dianosaur]

That must be so frustrating for you. Does this mean you have lost the job or are there other options open to you?

[CharleysAngel']

Hi little laura,

I was in the same sort of situation as you, although mine wasn't a job it was more of a hobby and I enjoyed it so much. There was a sort of team of us and I was pushed out and just ignored. After everything I had done for them and they just got rid of me, reason being the whole thing was a fix. They just made me feel like I wasn't good enough and I totally understand how hurt and upset you must feel now. Big hugs xxxx

[little-laura]

Hi little laura,

I was in the same sort of situation as you, although mine wasn't a job it was more of a hobby and I enjoyed it so much. There was a sort of team of us and I was pushed out and just ignored. After everything I had done for them and they just got rid of me, reason being the whole thing was a fix. They just made me feel like I wasn't good enough and I totally understand how hurt and upset you must feel now. Big hugs xxxx

mine wasnt a job either but the amount of work I had to do it felt like it. I did a lot of work but got snowed under as its a big job as over 1000  people attend so i had to have help. But other members of the group had  help too but I got kicked out because they are all close friends and are cliquie plus they wanted someone they are friends with to have my job.... I wasnt ignored but because they all knew they were going to vote me off they didnt invite me on any of the gatherings during the event and had the group photo without me.......