Recent Posts

Pages: 1 ... 8 9 [10]
91
Christian / Re: Devotions
« Last post by Pip on May 17, 2026, 11:02:03 AM »
https://proverbs31.org/read/devotions/full-post/2025/01/07/let-god-make-your-plans?utm_campaign=Daily%20Devotions&utm_medium=email&_hsenc=p2ANqtz-_RrftPtE0BEN-uoLvddDA3dgM_nzfwJLLJQr-qw1X7tNipGLmi9ETiDlcJPRl6kWgkOGMBAcilWw8YmmhzGI28fbm9ZA&_hsmi=339644194&utm_content=339644194&utm_source=hs_email#disqus_thread

Let God Make Your Plans
January 7, 2025
by Shirlee Abbott

“Hezekiah received the letter from the hand of the messengers and read it; and Hezekiah went up to the house of the LORD and spread it before the LORD.” 2 Kings 19:14 (ESV)

Before email and the internet, I was a high school senior collecting printed college flyers and catalogs and stashing them in a cardboard box. After sorting through the contents and picking out the likely possibilities, my parents and I made some visits. Then I made a final decision and asked God to bless my plan.  Once settled on campus, I sensed that my decision while not exactly wrong wasn’t quite right. Wiser now, I know it was the whisper of the Holy Spirit. Back then, I didn’t understand, but that uncomfortable feeling sent me back to the box. I selected a different school for the next year.  If I hadn’t transferred then, I wouldn’t be where I am now not because of the curriculum but because of the people at my new school. A dorm-mate invited me to a Bible study, where I met folks who didn’t ask God to bless their plans; they asked God to make their plans.  In the Old Testament, we find a few kings, priests and prophets who asked the Lord to make their plans. They took their issues into the Holy Place of the temple and prayed, What should we do?

Take today’s key verse, for example:  “Hezekiah received the letter from the hand of the messengers and read it; and Hezekiah went up to the house of the LORD and spread it before the LORD” (2 Kings 19:14).

When the powerful Assyrians were on their way to crush Jerusalem, King Hezekiah received a threatening letter. The message said nothing could prevent the coming destruction, not even God. Hezekiah prayed, What should we do?

The answer came through the prophet Isaiah (read it for yourself in 2 Kings 19:20-37): God had a battle plan far better than anything Hezekiah would have chosen.  If I’d done it Hezekiah’s way, I would have prayerfully sorted through my box in the presence of God. Instead, I worked the problem my own way, using my worldly wisdom, and then asked God for His stamp of approval. God saw beyond the degree programs, course offerings and cost to what I could not see: relationships, experiences and spiritual growth. God could have led me through a godly adviser (like Isaiah was for Hezekiah). He might have used circumstances. In the end, He worked through His holy nudge in my heart.  To this day, I don’t know if my first college year was God’s original plan or my mistake. Either way, I learned a life lesson that has served me better than any college degree.When faced with a hard choice, it often helps to list out the options and carefully consider the pros and cons. But may we prayerfully invite the Lord into the decision, spreading it out before Him and asking for His guidance.
92
Christian / Re: Devotions
« Last post by Pip on May 15, 2026, 05:27:34 PM »
https://proverbs31.org/read/devotions/full-post/2025/01/02/its-time-for-a-fresh-start?utm_campaign=Daily%20Devotions&utm_medium=email&_hsenc=p2ANqtz--ajgAqRwwkbw0h01_f9LvtuGLrteMWiKLGmrRi5m9PYA0-a4DxnOYmdBAt3DMU5tsE0YrAEX_nZ67dh9Y0XRdPOKtvWw&_hsmi=338898559&utm_content=338898559&utm_source=hs_email#disqus_thread

It’s Time for a Fresh Start!
January 2, 2025
by Rachel Booth Smith

“Then God looked over all he had made, and he saw that it was very good!” Genesis 1:31a (NLT)

When my family joined a new church, I was eager to make friends. Even though I was in my 30s, I felt a childlike nervousness about entering an unfamiliar room, finding a seat and making introductions with strangers.  Unfortunately, a rash on my eye exacerbated my awkward feelings. Doctors hadn’t yet discovered it was ocular rosacea; they only knew it wasn’t contagious. With my one puffy, red and watering eye, I looked either very sad or very sickly.  As I arrived, I imagined the room emptying, people eager to protect their families from my mysterious ailment. I worried my first impression would be not great.  We’ve all had different first impressions of God too. Some were warm and inviting; some were misinformed or even painful. Either way, as we grow and learn more about God’s character, we find ourselves adjusting and allowing God to introduce different aspects of Himself.  Genesis invites us to get to know God from the beginning: the beginning of the Bible and the beginning of the gospel. Genesis is His introduction to humanity. When we open the first page, laying aside all of our not-great past impressions or presets, what does God really want us to know?

“Then God looked over all he had made, and he saw that it was very good!” (Genesis 1:31a).

In Genesis 1, we see God repeatedly make good things (including people!) because goodness flows from Him. It is the essence of who He is.  The very first thing God wants us to know about Him is that He’s good.  After introducing God as Creator, Genesis then confronts a question that still plagues people today: What will a good God do when His people choose evil?

As we read Genesis, we discover God is unendingly patient. He waits and restores. He teaches and works behind the scenes to bless. When people make plans for harm or evil, God turns them around for good (Genesis 50:20). Why?

Because as all of creation testifies, He is good. One of my seminary professors says Genesis shows “God is just itchin’ to bless!”

All of His attributes are worth mentioning, but God wants us to know deep in our bones that He is good.  Maybe your first impression of God didn’t emphasize His goodness. Or maybe you’ve lost sight of who He is and what He cares about. Perhaps you’ve simply never learned to hear His voice, and you’re desperate for whispered words from His gentle heart. If so, are you ready for a fresh start?

I want to personally invite you to open the pages of Genesis and allow the God of all good things to reintroduce Himself to you.  At the beginning of the greatest story ever told, let God give you a new first impression of who He is. Watch Him interact with flawed people, turning things meant for evil into good and see how He is still doing the same for you.  Are you ready to experience His goodness?
93
The Lounge / Re: Members birthdays
« Last post by Pip on May 15, 2026, 04:28:52 PM »
Belated Happy Birthday MooMoo
94
The Lounge / Re: Members birthdays
« Last post by Amanda_George on May 14, 2026, 05:57:46 AM »
It's MooMoo's turn today! :yay:
95
Christian / Re: Devotions
« Last post by Pip on May 13, 2026, 04:40:52 PM »
https://proverbs31.org/read/devotions/full-post/2024/12/30/how-do-i-know-its-gods-will?utm_campaign=Daily%20Devotions&utm_medium=email&_hsenc=p2ANqtz-_jyorh_dUR9nfsR-cEs-bjV_qFvXqEbrjnPbxunHtdqUi8HMpNgh7Yc1L0BVDMgHU6gP2IVs7gkgytIB2-ciXSLIF9kw&_hsmi=338896053&utm_content=338896053&utm_source=hs_email#disqus_thread

How Do I Know It’s God’s Will?
December 30, 2024
by Abby McDonald

“Hope deferred makes the heart sick, But desire fulfilled is a tree of life.” Proverbs 13:12 (NASB)

I could hear the apprehension in my friend’s voice.  “How do I know it’s God’s will?” she asked.

Her question was one I’d wrestled with many times. We had been discussing an aspiration she’d had for months, and I heard her passion and desire to share God’s love with others. I knew she wanted to move forward, but she hesitated.  So I responded, “Well, why wouldn’t this be God’s will?”

She sat there for a moment, considering my words. “That’s a great question,” she said. “I don’t know.”

I understood my friend’s hesitation because I’ve lived it I often don’t trust my own desires. After all, doesn’t Jeremiah 17:9 warn us that the human heart is deceitful?

It’s easy to forget that when we follow Jesus, He transforms our hearts. The more we spend time with Him and study His Word, the more He reshapes our desires. While our motivations will never be completely faultless in this life, God equips us to discern His will and His voice. In fact, our desires are one of the ways God leads us.  Proverbs describes the beautiful outcome of a desire fulfilled:

“Hope deferred makes the heart sick, But desire fulfilled is a tree of life” (Proverbs 13:12).

In the original Hebrew language, the word for “desire” used here is taavah. Do you know where else this word is used?

In Genesis, before Eve ate from the tree of knowledge of good and evil.  “When the woman saw that the tree was good for food, and that it was a delight [taavah] to the eyes, and that the tree was desirable to make one wise, she took some of its fruit and ate ....” (Genesis 3:6, NASB).

So what causes some desires to lead to life and others to spiritual death?

Our desire will always follow our delight. When we delight ourselves in the Lord, our desires will follow (Psalm 37:4). But if something else takes precedence, our desires like Eve’s will be misguided.  God’s will is for us to seek Him first. When we do, our desires can become thriving trees of life, bearing good fruit and displaying His love for others to witness.  Friend, I don’t know what desires and dreams you’ve kept buried, hidden from God out of fear of what may happen if you share them but can I tell you something?

God’s will is for you to share all of you with all of Him.  His will is for you to confide in Him dreams, desires and ambitions. And as you do, He will bring forth new life.
96
https://dogrupara.com/few-people-realized-this-little-girl-would-one-day-make-history/?fbclid=IwY2xjawRxboxleHRuA2FlbQIxMABicmlkETBVdzNnWXFRaUtFOWZrOUFmc3J0YwZhcHBfaWQQMjIyMDM5MTc4ODIwMDg5MgABHv8mnT65QLPKoQPg9705PMzfa-enXWUwZWPMrMyndRYIVP9NM0ON9RerweL5_aem_h3cGNTXNKw-9g2drzg4fQQ

Roseanne Barr’s Rise, Collapse, and the Public Downfall That Changed Television History

A Star Who Once Represented Working-Class America 

For years, Roseanne Barr stood as one of the most recognizable figures on American television. Her sharp humor, fearless attitude, and unapologetic personality helped turn her into a household name during one of the most successful eras in sitcom history.  Audiences connected deeply with her portrayal of an outspoken working-class mother trying to survive everyday struggles. The character felt real to millions of viewers who rarely saw their own financial stress, exhaustion, and family tension reflected honestly on television.  At the height of her fame, Barr became more than a comedian. She became a cultural symbol tied to blue-collar America, representing frustration, resilience, and survival through humor.  But the same qualities that fueled her rise eventually became part of the destruction that followed.

A Difficult Childhood Shaped Her Personality

Long before fame transformed her life, Barr experienced a childhood marked by fear, instability, and emotional hardship. Growing up in Utah, she struggled with feelings of isolation while living within a fractured family environment.  Part of that struggle involved hiding her Jewish identity, something that reportedly left lasting emotional scars during her younger years. Those experiences contributed to a sense of anger and defensiveness that later became deeply connected to both her comedy and public behavior.  Her life changed dramatically after a devastating car accident during her youth. The trauma from that experience affected her physically and emotionally, adding another layer to an already turbulent upbringing.  Comedy eventually became a form of protection. Performing onstage allowed Barr to channel pain into laughter, transforming personal struggles into material that audiences found both funny and painfully relatable.

Turning Pain Into a Television Empire

As her stand-up career gained momentum, Barr developed a style that separated her from many comedians of the era. She spoke openly about family stress, financial pressure, motherhood, and emotional exhaustion in ways that felt raw and authentic.  That honesty became the foundation of her television success.  When her sitcom arrived on American television, viewers quickly embraced the show’s grounded portrayal of ordinary life. Unlike many polished sitcom families of the time, the household at the center of Barr’s series struggled with bills, parenting problems, and constant emotional tension.  The series became a massive success and helped redefine television comedy. Barr’s character resonated especially strongly with women who felt overlooked by mainstream entertainment.  For a period of time, her connection with audiences appeared almost impossible to break.

The Warning Signs Behind the Success

Even during her years at the top of television, controversy often followed Barr. Her public image increasingly became tied not only to comedy but also to unpredictable behavior and repeated scandals.  Critics and industry observers frequently pointed to warning signs that seemed to grow more serious over time. Emotional outbursts, public feuds, and increasingly divisive comments began overshadowing her professional accomplishments.  The tension between her talent and her controversies became impossible to ignore.  Many people who once admired her fearless personality started questioning whether her confrontational behavior had crossed into something darker and more destructive.

Moments That Damaged Her Public Reputation

Over the years, Barr became involved in multiple incidents that sparked outrage and criticism. Each controversy appeared to deepen public divisions around her.  The national anthem incident became one of the earliest major moments that damaged her image. What some supporters defended as rebellious humor was viewed by others as disrespectful and offensive.  Later controversies continued to intensify the backlash surrounding her public behavior.  Accusations, inflammatory remarks, offensive imagery, and repeated public disputes gradually transformed Barr from a beloved sitcom star into one of the most polarizing personalities in entertainment.  The Hitler photoshoot generated particularly fierce criticism and remained one of the most controversial chapters of her career. Many former supporters struggled to reconcile the image of the comedian they once admired with the increasingly provocative actions dominating headlines.

The Role of Anger and Public Conflict

Throughout her public life, anger often appeared closely tied to Barr’s identity. Her confrontational approach became central not only to her comedy but also to the way she interacted with critics, media outlets, and even fans.  Supporters frequently praised her refusal to back down. Detractors argued that the behavior reflected deeper issues involving ego, resentment, and an ongoing attraction to public conflict.  As social and political tensions increased across the country, Barr’s public comments became more aggressive and divisive.  The line between provocative humor and destructive behavior became increasingly blurred.

Social Media Changed Everything

The rise of social media dramatically altered the relationship between celebrities and the public. For Barr, those platforms eventually became the center of her downfall.  Unlike television appearances controlled by producers and networks, social media allowed instant communication without filters or oversight. Barr embraced that freedom aggressively, often posting controversial opinions directly to millions of people.  What once might have remained isolated controversies quickly spread across the internet within minutes.  Each new incident intensified public backlash while drawing more attention to her increasingly erratic online behavior.  Supporters defended her as outspoken and unfiltered. Critics described her posts as cruel, offensive, and dangerous.

The Comeback That Ended Almost Immediately

Despite years of controversy, Barr experienced one of the most surprising comeback stories in television history when her famous sitcom returned to the air.  The revival attracted enormous attention and impressive ratings, proving that audience interest in her character remained extremely strong.  For a brief period, it appeared possible that Barr might fully restore her legacy. The success of the revival shocked critics who believed her controversies had permanently destroyed her career. Fans celebrated the return of a show they associated with authenticity and working-class representation.But the comeback collapsed with astonishing speed.

The Tweet That Destroyed Her Career

Everything changed after one social media post triggered immediate national outrage.  The backlash was swift and overwhelming. Networks, industry figures, and viewers reacted almost instantly as criticism spread across television and online platforms.  The controversy escalated so rapidly that the successful sitcom revival was canceled despite its strong ratings and major cultural impact. The cancellation represented one of the most dramatic falls from power in modern entertainment history.  A television icon who had once dominated prime-time programming suddenly found herself isolated from the industry that helped build her fame.

A Legacy Divided by Controversy

Roseanne Barr’s story remains deeply divisive because it combines undeniable talent with repeated self-destruction.  For many viewers, she permanently changed television by giving working-class families a more honest voice on screen. Her comedy captured frustrations and hardships that many people felt mainstream entertainment had ignored.  Others believe her controversies eventually overshadowed those achievements entirely.  The public collapse of her career forced many fans to reconsider the complicated relationship between artistic influence and personal behavior.  Some continue to view her as a groundbreaking comedian who lost control of her public image. Others see her downfall as the predictable result of years of escalating controversy and rage.

The Emotional Cost of Fame and Isolation

Barr’s public unraveling also revealed the emotional instability that can exist behind celebrity success. Fame amplified both her strengths and her flaws, turning personal struggles into national spectacle.  The pressures of public life appeared to intensify long-standing issues tied to trauma, anger, and conflict. Over time, her image shifted from rebellious outsider to increasingly isolated figure locked in constant public battles.  Many former supporters expressed sadness watching someone who once represented humor and resilience become consumed by controversy.  The transformation unfolded publicly and in real time, making the collapse even more shocking for audiences who had followed her career for decades.

A Career That Will Always Spark Debate

Roseanne Barr’s place in television history remains impossible to ignore.  Her influence on sitcom storytelling helped reshape how working-class families were portrayed on screen. She brought a level of realism and emotional frustration that resonated with millions of viewers across America.  At the same time, the controversies surrounding her career continue to define much of the public conversation about her legacy.  The story of Roseanne Barr ultimately became larger than entertainment itself. It evolved into a cautionary example of how fame, anger, public controversy, and social media can collide with devastating consequences.  Her rise once symbolized the power of honesty and defiance in comedy. Her downfall showed how quickly that same defiance could spiral into self-destruction when left unchecked.  For supporters and critics alike, Roseanne Barr remains one of the most complicated and controversial figures television has ever produced.
97
The Lounge / Re: Members birthdays
« Last post by Pip on May 10, 2026, 01:34:17 PM »
Happy Birthday mat
98
The Lounge / Re: Members birthdays
« Last post by Amanda_George on May 10, 2026, 06:37:52 AM »
It's mat's turn today!   :excited:
99
Christian / Re: Devotions
« Last post by Pip on May 09, 2026, 03:16:24 PM »
https://proverbs31.org/read/devotions/full-post/2024/12/25/finding-joy-in-a-complicated-christmas?utm_campaign=Daily%20Devotions&utm_medium=email&_hsenc=p2ANqtz-9PBfRBz9yS3ByGJsft48nr46WgmmpBONh2B004EdTiGPBoMROMUbNrAawLU58pFHWn5lpNJyw2ZykZCG0_z40yOWzGwg&_hsmi=336916749&utm_content=336916749&utm_source=hs_email#disqus_thread

Finding Joy in a Complicated Christmas
December 25, 2024
by Elizabeth Laing Thompson

“Glory to God in the highest heaven, and on earth peace to those on whom his favor rests.” Luke 2:14 (NIV)

On Christmas night in 2005, I watched my father hold my daughter, his first grandchild, for the first time. Only an hour old, she blinked bright eyes up at him, and his eyes filled with tears. I felt a riot of emotions: transcendent joy, heart-bursting gratitude, and lurking underneath a shadow of fear. Watching Dad, I couldn’t forget his announcement two nights earlier: “I have cancer.”

We’d spent years praying for our miracle baby, and here on Christmas night, God had given us the greatest gift of our lives. Our joy should have been complete, but a fearful voice kept whispering, This joy is fragile. What if Dad’s not here next Christmas?

I couldn’t help but ask God, Tonight of all nights, why can’t we just be happy?

Maybe you know the feeling of a complicated Christmas. For one day, we long to feel peace and to celebrate unhindered but a chair at Christmas dinner sits empty. Work and finances are overwhelming. A relationship feels distant. We might sing “joy to the world,” but the joy in our world is incomplete.  Two thousand years ago, celestial music the first Christmas carols rang out to celebrate Jesus’ birth:  “Suddenly a great company of the heavenly host appeared with the angel, praising God and saying, ‘Glory to God in the highest heaven, and on earth peace to those on whom his favor rests’” (Luke 2:13-14, NIV).

Heaven’s delight resounded over fields and flocks, inviting all to celebrate. Meanwhile, an evil king plotted from a crooked throne: When King Herod heard that a Jewish king had been born, he felt threatened and eventually killed all the baby boys in Bethlehem (Matthew 2:13-18). The heartbreak defies words. Jesus was born into the mess of a world gone mad, a world that desperately needed Him to save it.  Was the first Christmas a perfect day, free of sin and sorrow?

No.  But was it still a day of astounding joy?

Yes.  Angels interrupted a sleepy night to throw a surprise party with shepherds. God ushered happiness into a humble stable and a young couple’s arms. He surprised them with joy just as He does for us.  No Christmas is ever perfect, but if we watch closely, we can catch God’s joy breaking through: in knee hugs from exuberant toddlers, in silly dances in the kitchen while cooking Christmas dinner, in sentimental tears as we retell cherished stories.  When Jesus was born, joy broke through. Heaven’s light surprised our dark world. For a few sparkling moments, shepherds saw beyond the veil past the imperfection of the here and now glimpsing heaven’s glory and hearing heaven’s songs.  Because of that day, we can stand with the shepherds and sing with the angels. We can sing whether today feels like a miracle, a mess, or a muddle of both. We can sing because God’s light overcomes darkness, and His joy breaks through.
100
The Lounge / Re: Members birthdays
« Last post by Pip on May 08, 2026, 12:14:29 PM »
 :bday1: niz :anim_65:
Pages: 1 ... 8 9 [10]