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General => Welcome our 'NEW MEMBERS'!! => Topic started by: Boo1968 on January 19, 2011, 05:35:10 PM

Title: Hi I'm New
Post by: Boo1968 on January 19, 2011, 05:35:10 PM
Hmm well where do I start?  I am the mother of two lovely children (teenagers) I got divorced from their father when they was young and met a lovely man who I had 7 lovely years with until he died of cancer that will have been 4 years ago this year.

A year later I met another lovely man who moved in with me and my 2 children, the thing is he became ill with epilepsy and had to have 6 months off of work and was constantly in and out of hospital, as you can imagine I hate hospitals and everything keeps coming back up again.  I have had counselling for my grief.

Well now there are a lot of money troubles, sooooo many troubles and I can't talk to him because I don't want to set off his epilepsy, my mum just shrugs her shoulders and don't want to know.  I'm sooo tense I don't want to do anything I just get up go to work and look normal but instead I feel like i'm going to be sick, im just so tense I feel like theirs a big ball of tense in me that just dont want to come out sometimes i feel like i can't breathe with it.

I just want it to go away, I just want some comfort, someone to look after me take all this horrible mess away and say yes it will be alright
Title: Re: Hi I'm New
Post by: junior on January 19, 2011, 10:23:08 PM
Hi boo, welcome to the forum, sorry you feel so bad right now, I can honestly say I understand your money worries as 6 months ago I lost my job business was made bankrupt and my partner ended our 12 year relationship now I live in a small flat on my own with no job very little money and only get to see my boys on weekends. I know thats not the same but money was a big issue, I also know that there are lots of ways to clear debts other than bankruptcy, eg a dro, hope thing ease up for you soon.
Junior
Title: Re: Hi I'm New
Post by: lightenup on January 20, 2011, 04:10:10 PM
Hi Boo, a warm  !"£ to the forum.
Title: Re: Hi I'm New
Post by: Boo1968 on January 20, 2011, 06:38:58 PM
Thank you both for the warm welcome, it really is appreciated xx Boo xx
Title: Re: Hi I'm New
Post by: bel on January 21, 2011, 09:06:31 AM
Hi Boo, and  !"£
Title: Re: Hi I'm New
Post by: Boo1968 on January 21, 2011, 02:16:32 PM
Thank you bel xx
Title: Re: Hi I'm New
Post by: Mark on January 24, 2011, 05:04:18 PM
Hey Boo, a very warm welcome to the forum  :)

Take care
Mark  :)