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Title: Still here
Post by: Marie1991 on October 02, 2012, 08:34:15 PM

Still at home...waiting on some help from a family member with a deposite for somewhere to live. Its nearly been 2 weeks of my so called parents not speaking me. Just heard them having a conversation, my mum said shes going to make things difficult... apparently taking the internet away (how am I meant to do my college work) taking the landline away (funny thing is, i never use it.. i have a mobile) and make sure theres as little food as possible for me to feed myself. HOW IS THIS NORMAL.

Title: Re: Still here
Post by: Stacey on October 02, 2012, 08:55:34 PM

I'm so sorry Marie. Thats really awful. I hope you can get this deposit sorted xx

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Post by: Pip on October 02, 2012, 09:34:51 PM

It isn't Marie and I hope you get help soon with the deposit.  My mum could be awful but never that bad and I was able to keep out of her way on week days as I was working so by the time I got home it would be early to mid evening and I would go to bed early as I had to be up early. At weekends I would see friends so wouldn't be at home much. 

Title: Re: Still here
Post by: Michael Frankum on October 02, 2012, 11:28:37 PM

Dear Marie, there's nothing normal about the way they are treating you. I hope that you can get the deposit together soon. It will be such a relief when you can finally move on. Good luck. Best wishes. Michael  +-_

Title: Re: Still here
Post by: Sweetpea on October 03, 2012, 09:25:10 AM

This is so awful for you Marie. The way they are treating you is terrible (((( hugs ))). I do hope you get the deposit sorted so you can get a place of your own. S x x x x

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Title: Re: Still here
Post by: Marie1991 on October 03, 2012, 10:47:58 PM

I've got my deposite :) now just waiting on some people to get back to me about their rooms for rent :) Some of you have read my posts and from this one you have an idea of what my mums is like... she just sent me this text.. ''Rob is to leave sunday morning. He should find something else to do on saturday while your at work. If you give us anymore attitude or keep us awake while rob is down all future weekends will be stopped. im not doing you an favours you behaviour is despicable. If you dont like it you are free to leave. we are not tolerating this anymore'' (rob is my boyfriend)

I dont understand how her mind works. What is the problem with my boyfriend staying in the house while im at work? I can tell you for a fact now that no matter how quiet we are she will turn around and say we made so much noise and completely stop him from coming down. The funny thing is she says feel free to leave... its her smug way to be horrible because she things i need her and i cant leave...little does she know im so close to leaving.

Title: Re: Still here
Post by: Michael Frankum on October 03, 2012, 11:20:55 PM

Dear Marie, that's great news about the deposit. Soon now, all this will be behind you, and you and Rob can get on with your lives without the constant distraction of your mother. Here's wishing you plain sailing from now on. ()_ ()_

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Post by: Stacey on October 04, 2012, 12:02:09 AM

Marie I'm pleased you have managed to get your deposit :) telling your mother you're leaving will probably feel really satisfying. I hope you find somewhere perfect for you xxx

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Post by: Pip on October 04, 2012, 05:18:22 PM

The sooner you are away from there the better  %^%

Title: Re: Still here
Post by: Marie1991 on October 07, 2012, 06:37:24 PM

Still looking for places... Rob came here this weekend... she completely ignored him... it was so so embarrassing. Didnt even say hello. We went to Tesco to go get our dinner and while we were out she sent me these texts

Text 1- Try and keep the noise down and bring all your cups down etc. If you dont...
Text 2- Oh and keep me awake at night and youll both be asked to leave. Hope im making myself clear now so theres no further confusion

Cant wait to get away from her.

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Post by: Zaf on October 07, 2012, 08:16:45 PM

Thats awful  %^%

Z xxx

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Post by: Stacey on October 07, 2012, 08:25:36 PM

I really fail to understand how someone can be so cruel. Hopefully you can get out soon and they will realise what they have done xx

Title: Re: Still here
Post by: Marie1991 on October 07, 2012, 09:05:25 PM

Same! Theres no way I'd ever treat anybody like this, I dont understand how she thinks its ok to be like this. Cant wait to be happy xx

Title: Re: Still here
Post by: Sweetpea on October 07, 2012, 10:03:35 PM

So glad to hear you have your deposit. The sooner you have your own place the better %^%. S x x x x

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Title: Re: Still here
Post by: Michael Frankum on October 07, 2012, 10:57:13 PM

Fingers crossed for you. Won't be long now.

Title: Re: Still here
Post by: hopeful on October 08, 2012, 01:16:11 AM

Hi Marie,

Hope it will happen soon. Just to let you know that when I left home at 17 I cut myself off from an abusive parent and never looked back. It was a difficult decision but one I've never regretted, even all these years later. It's not right to be treated like that and I hope you get away from that situation as soon as possible. Take care, it will be better when you're out of it.

xx