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Depression Related Forums => Depression Central => Topic started by: Marie1991 on September 24, 2012, 10:37:01 PM
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For those of you who have read my post- enough is enough...
Its been 2 days and my parents havent even said one word to me... I really don't think I'm in the wrong! In a family home, when dinner is cooked it is cooked for everyone, right? Well for the past 2 days dinner hasnt been cooked for me. They've just cooked for themselves. I dont mind having to cook for myself, not a problem but how their acting is just...i dont get it!
I've found a place, little cheap studio which is near my college and work- going to see how much help I can get with the rent tomorrow :) My tutor gave me a lot of adivse today, lifted my spirits a bit :)
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So sorry to hear that about your parents not talking to you. I've been through that many times and it really hurts no matter how you try to block it out. Hopefully getting your own place my make them realise what they have lost and stop taking you for granted.
I wish you all the best.
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Thank you :)
Their acting all happy together, laughing away like they havent done anything wrong. I would never treat anybody like this. I'd be the first to admite and say sorry if I ever did something wrong.
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i know how you feel! my wife hasnt spoken to me for over a week!
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What happened before they stopped speaking to you? X
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I'll copy and paste my last post...(my very first post explains what my mum is really like in detail)
How much can a person really take...
I've said before that I was going to look into shared housing, I've been putting it off because I just thought things would get better but I have totally been kidding myself. The people who know everything that is going on have told me I need to leave and look out for myself.
I go by all the silly rules. My boyfriend and I have been told by my mum that we HAVE to buy our own food when hes down and cook for ourselves. We have been for a while now. But Friday night my mum asked me why I had food shopping so I responded by telling her its because you told us to buy our own food... She denied it...I kept saying that she did and my stepdad as per stayed silent.. she turned around and said in the most horrible patronising way "Yes, I told you to do that" it made me feel so angry and messed in the head! She made out like i wasnt telling the truth. Then my stepdad finally piped up and said ''You shouldnt make them do that its silly..'' and of course, she didnt like that one bit. I left and went upstairs because I could feel myself wanting to cry with anger. I could hear her saying things like ''You just sit here and drink yourself to death'' when he sticks up for me she says horrible things to him and has hit him in the past. They then argued, so i went downstairs to say sorry because obviously i didnt want that to happen. He started shouting at me saying ''so what if she cant remember, you and her need to sort this out!'' all of a sudden he was on her side, this happens alot. He then punched the wall. My boyfriend was sat on the stairs listening to everything and said to me that I need to get out of here and that he is glad thats hes seen it for himself how thet treat me.
Im the person thats there for them to take out their issues on. Im there to be controlled and bullied. Im there for them to make their own messed up relationship better.
Recently I've been getting the feeling where I just want to walk....and keep on walking. I dont want to look back. I just want to walk.
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Oh this just gets worse for you. They are showing such childish behaviour. I am glad you have found a nice place. I do hope you get the help you need. S X x x x
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Dear Marie, after all this, I'm glad that you have found a new place. It seems as if you are the only adult in the house. It sounds as if your stepdad has learned to quickly switch sides. Maybe they will appreciate you a bit more when they have to deal with each other, rather than having you as a football getting kicked around by them to focus on. Good luck and best wishes.
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Few steps back.. I need to get a shared places which isnt all that bad, works out better because its cheaper and includes all my bills. I know I shouldnt have done this...but I looked at my mums phone, I read a text from my stepdad... their purposly not cooking me dinner and now going to treat me like a lodger to teach me a lesson and their going to stop paying for my college bus pass...all this because of their actions. Just doesnt make sense. I can cook for myself and my boyfriend and i will pay for my bus pass. Their not going to achieve anything. I find it really wrong though that this is their way of punishing me for something I havent done.
Thank you all for taking time to read my rants :) xx
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I hope you can get the accommodation sorted quickly so you can get settled. S x x x x
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Really hope you can get it sorted x
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%^% I'm sorry I didn't read this earlier but I'm glad that you are doing something positive about moving out. It sounds like they need to grow up.
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Day 4 of no communication...I wake up and go downstairs...what do I find...A list of things for me that I need to do.....cleaning! First bit of communication...! This just shows that thats all I'm good for to them and in this house.
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Cheek of it :( Just shows that they will miss you and what you do when you leave. S x x x x
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