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Depression Related Forums => Depression Central => Topic started by: CharleysAngel' on June 09, 2012, 09:57:12 PM
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I need to move out. I can't cope with living here. Everyone blames me for everything and no one really loves me. My siblings are nasty to me and my parents don't really want anything to do with me. I just want to live somwhere else but I don't have anywhere to go. I have no money and none of my other family want anything to do with me :'(
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Icelolly &*( &*(
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This is a hard time for you &*( &*(.
S x x x x
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I'm so sorry Icelolly, I don't know what to suggest to make things better.
^&^ With love x
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dear icelolly
my heart goes out to you as i was in this sort of situation when i was at home with my parents my sister had left home and my brother was really only my brother in name and my parents didn't show me any love or affection and were always judgemental of me and i never could make them happy and its never changed but i did get out when i was old enough and it was very liberating so although you may have to wait a little while it will happen if you want it i hope things get better for you
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Thanks everyone, I really appreciate your kindness and support xxxx
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I need to move out. I can't cope with living here. Everyone blames me for everything and no one really loves me. My siblings are nasty to me and my parents don't really want anything to do with me. I just want to live somwhere else but I don't have anywhere to go. I have no money and none of my other family want anything to do with me :'(
I could have written exactly this when I first started to suffer from bipolar disorder, I had convinced myself that the only way to escape my problems was to escape my family because I felt that they didn't love me because they were always on my case or nagging, soon enough I moved out and din't look back but it didn't solve my problems, I was lonely, depressed and suffering from extreme mood swings. It took a long time for me to realise that my family wern't the problem and the reason they were on my case is because they were worried about me and could see first hand how I was acting was down to my condition not me but I refused to admit it or see it.
try to see that your family love you and are probably only worried about you, thw whole sibbling rivalry is probably down to them thinking you are acting strangely and not like you but that is because of your condition, are you getting any support or treatment at the moment
keep posting, we have all been there at one point or another
smirfy
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Yes, Icelolly, I totally understand. I left home at 16. Thought I was all grown up. I relate to what smirfy wrote. Sometimes we are all at fault but it's not until we stand back/leave home do we realise our own part to play in all the stress.
I hope you're feeling better
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Thanks Smirfy and Catbrian xx
I think your right, its just sometimes it all gets too much at home and I can't cope with it. I feel like I am being blamed for everything and it just gets to me. :(
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Hope ya feel better about it....tomorrow is a new day!