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General => Welcome our 'NEW MEMBERS'!! => Topic started by: DeepOne on April 19, 2012, 09:45:33 AM

Title: Looking for friends...
Post by: DeepOne on April 19, 2012, 09:45:33 AM
Hi everyone.

This is my first post.  I'm Peter 31, and I suffer from depression and general anxiety disorder, and I am fighting a drink problem too.  It's been on an off for the last 12 years, but I always held down a good career.  In October my condition worsened.   I have since lost my job, my wife and my home.  The wife wasn't very understanding and I am glad to be moving into a new chapter, albeit an unknown one.

The worst part of my condition is the derealisation - a condition where reality seems very dreamy, and you feel very disconnected sensory wise to reality.   It's horrible.  It's like being at the bottom of a swimming pool and everything you see and hear is filtered through the water first.

I am on 150mg Venelafaxine which keeps the worst of the derealisation, anxiety and panic attacks away, but the dull depression is ever there.  I can't remember what the feeling of happiness is anymore.  My doctor has just prebscribed me a low dose of Quetiapine which I will pick up after the weekend.  Has this helped anyone here at all?

I'm glad I have found this site.  It is comforting in a way that I'm not alone and there are others who understand, although I'd do anything for all of you to not have depression obviously.

I live in Romford, Essex, and am looking to make friends.  Male or female.  Any romantic possibilities reserved for the females only!  :P

I wish you all well, and give my love to every one of you.

Title: Re: Looking for friends...
Post by: Zaf on April 19, 2012, 10:06:47 AM
Hi and welcome

You'll find everyone here is lovely and will help as much as they can

Z xx
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Post by: Buttercup on April 19, 2012, 12:18:04 PM
Hi and welcome.

I understand the derealisation I experience it, mine feels like I'm in a bubble and all sounds etc are filtered.
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Post by: Ezel on April 19, 2012, 12:41:55 PM
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Post by: Sweetpea on April 19, 2012, 01:37:15 PM
Hello and welcome,

We are a friendly bunch and will help and advise where we can.

Take care

S x x
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Post by: Beetzart on April 19, 2012, 03:10:27 PM
Hi Peter, so sorry to read about what you have been through and I can sincerely empathise with that. You have come to a great forum with wonderful people.  I'm also on venlafaxine 150 mg.

Kindest regards
Title: Re: Looking for friends...
Post by: Got on April 19, 2012, 03:32:44 PM

Disociation is a strange sensation, I have experienced it myself when very anxious.

Quetiapine is a good medication, and is often thrown in with antdepressants to lift a depression.

I hope it works out for you.

Steve X
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Post by: KateG on April 20, 2012, 02:53:55 PM
Hi Peter and welcome

Kate
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Post by: lost rolex on April 21, 2012, 07:56:46 AM
Hi and welcome i often become dreamy and i get a high pitched soft noise in my head as i float along.

LR
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Post by: DeepOne on April 26, 2012, 09:53:16 AM
Thanks to everyone for their kind words.
Title: Re: Looking for friends...
Post by: DeepOne on April 26, 2012, 09:55:39 AM
Also, I have just started the Quetiapine yesterday, and if anything, it's slightly increased the anxiety, as well as making it hard to focus on anything.  Has anyone else experienced this?