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Depression Related Forums => Depression Central => Topic started by: Laura on December 04, 2011, 04:51:38 PM

Title: Bad week
Post by: Laura on December 04, 2011, 04:51:38 PM
I just got an email from my aunt to say my nan has been diagnosed with something that could make her blind by Xmas, that she's so confused she can't be left alone and that it's life threatening.
This is really out of the blue for me.
My mum's been telling me that my aunt has been making a fuss over nothing as nan never mentioned any symptoms to her.
My aunt has told me in the past that my mum sticks her head in the sand.
I don't know if my nan ever told my mum about the symptoms.

I'm just really confused and have just blubbed on the phone to my sister
Title: Re: Bad week
Post by: tharidler on December 04, 2011, 06:15:18 PM
i was sorry to read your news as bad news at any time is hard to deal with i guess under these circumstances even worse as you've not got the whole story i hope things are better soon
Title: Re: Bad week
Post by: danbob on December 04, 2011, 06:28:53 PM
sounds like macular degeneration for me, it runs in my family, it is bad news and especially before xmas.. chin up!! :hugs:
Title: Re: Bad week
Post by: Zaf on December 04, 2011, 06:37:39 PM
Thinking of you &*(
Title: Re: Bad week
Post by: Laura on December 04, 2011, 07:09:40 PM
No it's something called arteritis. (sp?)
Unfortunately nan forgets to take the medication she's been given.

I've just started on new meds, literally four days ago, and I feel all over the place.
i've got three hospital appointments myself this week so don't know if I can go visit her.

Ugh, I feel so useless.


Title: Re: Bad week
Post by: Zaf on December 04, 2011, 07:54:15 PM
Try to pace yourself Laura, is it possible to phone your nan during the week and visit her at the weekend?
Title: Re: Bad week
Post by: Munchroom on December 04, 2011, 07:56:12 PM
Laura... how true is it that everything happens at once?!

Thinking of you lovely, try not to be too hard on yourself xx
Title: Re: Bad week
Post by: lou on December 06, 2011, 08:27:14 PM
try not to beat yourself up. hopefully things will begin to get better soon, hang on in there ^&^