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Depression Related Forums => Depression Central => Topic started by: Laura on December 03, 2011, 08:20:32 PM

Title: Messed up
Post by: Laura on December 03, 2011, 08:20:32 PM
I booked to see one of my favourite bands this week and have been convinced for months that the gig will be Tuesday
My mum is on holiday and I'm due to collect her Monday.
Just found out the gig is Monday and there is no leeway. Gonna have to arrange a cab for her.

Also just found out that the gig I thought was tomorrow is next week!

Why did I make such big mistakes?
I don't trust my self as it is, I usually check and double check, then when I don't I get it all wrong.
Title: Re: Messed up
Post by: Zaf on December 03, 2011, 08:41:23 PM
Poor you, but please believe me it isnt just you, I nearly went to meet a friend a week early in the summer and recently turned up for my smear test a week late and ad to get all psyched up again when the rearranged appointment was sorted :(
Title: Re: Messed up
Post by: Alstare1974 on December 03, 2011, 08:42:27 PM
Try not to beat yourself up about it.
Title: Re: Messed up
Post by: Laura on December 03, 2011, 09:20:17 PM
well I guess I should be glad I didn't get my last hospital appt wrong, I was so stressed about that it would have been horrible to go through that again.

I just hope Mum will be ok, she's not the most confident person around, I hope she gets my message about the change too.
I feel awful about it.
Title: Re: Messed up
Post by: Zaf on December 04, 2011, 11:07:15 AM
Is there any way you can check your mum got the message?

Perhaps give her a small gift as a sorry when she's back too
Title: Re: Messed up
Post by: Laura on December 04, 2011, 04:15:40 PM
It's kinda complicated but now things have changed so my sister is going to leave work early to go get her.

I feel so stupid.
Title: Re: Messed up
Post by: Zaf on December 04, 2011, 04:38:24 PM
Dont beat yourself up, we all do it, even when we arent depressed  :-\
Title: Re: Messed up
Post by: doublep on December 05, 2011, 04:12:52 PM
I have noticed that over the last couple of months I have been messing up timings of appointments and forgetting other things.

Ive now ended up putting everything on my calendar on my Google account, so it pops up on my phone well in advance!!  :)
Title: Re: Messed up
Post by: Zaf on December 05, 2011, 04:14:57 PM
Thats not foolproof,  I do that and somehow got an appointment put in an hour late :(
Title: Re: Messed up
Post by: doublep on December 05, 2011, 04:16:25 PM
Thats not foolproof,  I do that and somehow got an appointment put in an hour late :(

Very true, I gotta admit.. I did mess up once last week.
But I can't live without it at the moment  ::)
Title: Re: Messed up
Post by: Zaf on December 05, 2011, 04:22:37 PM
I double check the time and date now, I find it invaluable too nowdays
Title: Re: Messed up
Post by: Laura on December 06, 2011, 01:37:00 AM
I'm glad it's not just me. Thanks
Title: Re: Messed up
Post by: lost rolex on December 09, 2011, 04:30:24 AM
why do you all go out to these plases with lots of people about, the stress would do me in.....
Title: Re: Messed up
Post by: lost rolex on December 09, 2011, 04:33:32 AM
I booked to see one of my favourite bands this week and have been convinced for months that the gig will be Tuesday
My mum is on holiday and I'm due to collect her Monday.
Just found out the gig is Monday and there is no leeway. Gonna have to arrange a cab for her.

Also just found out that the gig I thought was tomorrow is next week!

Why did I make such big mistakes?
I don't trust my self as it is, I usually check and double check, then when I don't I get it all wrong.


too much too soon


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Title: Re: Messed up
Post by: Zaf on December 09, 2011, 04:48:33 AM
why do you all go out to these plases with lots of people about, the stress would do me in.....

Unfortunately I dont always ave a choice :(
Title: Re: Messed up
Post by: Munchroom on December 09, 2011, 09:46:43 AM
why do you all go out to these plases with lots of people about, the stress would do me in.....

Unfortunately I dont always ave a choice :(

Snap  :-\