I've been back. They have told me I need to wait. I don't beleive that the doctors can help me anyway, they have given me tablets but I'm still very depressed, and getting an appointment is proving close to impossible. They can't change my situtation even if they do try.
I have to do hold on and put up with this horrible depression until one day it goes away. I am already resigned to the fact that I am going to be very unhappy and quite ill for sometime yet, because my life has gone badly wrong, and the efforts I have put in to getting my life on track have ended in ruin. I would like to be happy again one day, but I am 28 years old and I have proven to myself that I cannot get the things I've wanted. During times of tempoary strength I have tried to lead a happy successful life but I have failed, and women who have loved me have now rejected me, so that proves to me that I have no aptitude for a decent life because I let people down and have made mistakes that are unforgivable. The best predictor for future behaviour is past behaviour, and I have no faith in my own abilities to live a normal happy life. Even if I get better I will ruin what I have worked for like I have so many times before.
I am not looking for attention here at all, its just a description of how my mind is at the moment. I can see all the errors in what I have just said, and I know what I would say to someone if they told me the same, but unfortunatly, in my current state of mind it is a firm belief. I am tired of fighting it and trying to force myself to think possitively, the effort is making me feel physically ill.
There is no quick fix to this, I will have to keep working and keep being strong, and hopefully at somepoint I will see sense. I am acutely aware of how this negative thinking isn't helpful, but it is the way I am.