Hey all,
So i started counselling today, and i knew what was going to be asked really, about family etc.... well yes i lost my dad 7 years ago and i miss him every day, but im not depressed about it!! why do they always hit on ''you havent grieved properly'' i grieved for the 4 years he battled cancer knowing that wasnt going to be a good outcome. I was asked questions but nothing about how im actually feeling right now, it was all about how i felt when dad died, am i angry at my dad...its like being at a bad medium reading and they hit on one thing and dont leave it alone!! They seem to think they have the answer in one session and its dad related! im so frustrated, i went in there keeping an open mind about it and came out lower than when i went in as it was such a let down.
The counseller has said she wants to do EMDR therapy, she tried it on me today, but i just didnt feel anything different about the emotion she was trying to relate. Im keeping positive about it as i have read some articles about EMDR and it can be good, so i will give it a go. I just dont feel that my depression is caused by past traumatic events, but hey im not the therapist.
I have another meeting at work on monday, this is when im going to find out if im another step closer to losing my job.
Ive had a few really bad days the last week or so, to the point i really thought that was it id slipped off the knife edge and completely lost it, so much so i was really scared. I feel its this sort of stuff i need to be talking to a therapist about, not my dad.
Just needed to sound off abit i think, hope your all ok:) Ali )-_