Hello.
I'm 22, a student in my final year at university, and have been on fluoxetine for just over 12 months for depression/anxiety/ocd. I've been feeling really good on the fluoxetine, combined with therapy. I'm much more confident and happy, and feel able to deal with things. That's why I decided to begin tapering off the fluoxetine. My GP said to take a tablet every other day, which I have been doing for just over a week now with no side effects besides having very weird, vivid dreams!
The thing I'm worried about is how sensitively I react to other people's comments. Yesterday, a housemate said something which hurt me. This particular housemate, we get along well I suppose, but we aren't close and I feel like she makes little effort with talking to me-it's often one sided. In fact, I'm sure she doesn't really like me but I've accepted that. So yesterday I was explaining why I didn't quite like a girl on our course, and she said, 'You always remember things that have no relevance. Those things would never come up in a conversation ever.' Now then, this may not seem like much, but she has made similar comments previously about me talking nonsense/the things I say being unimportant (eg. 'what you've just said has nothing to do with the conversation.') As someone who often thinks about what they say in case they say something boring/offensive, I was quite hurt by this, especially since I didn't really say anything back which I would have liked to, and so feel like a failure for not standing up for myself properly.
To add to this, today another housemate said, 'No one knows what she [myself] is talking about half the time'. This wasn't meant in a belittling way, and not to be cruel-in fact I think it was supposed to be endearing. All the same, it has put me in a negative mood, as I am quite upset that I am never accepted and seen as serious among my housemates. I feel like they don't understand me, although I count most of them as my best friends and do very much like them, and then it becomes that I don't feel that anyone understands me or thinks I'm worth anything or that I am quite a deep person really. I don't feel listened to, and this worries me as I think, 'Would I think like this normally, or is it because I'm tapering off the fluoxetine?' I'm scared that I rely on the medication more than I think I do, and without it I'll be the depressed, negative and paranoid person I was before. I'm scared that I will need fluoxetine for my whole life.
I'm not sure what I'm asking, but I'd just like some opinions on whether this could be down to the tapering off fluoxetine...really I'm not sure what I'm asking but I want some reassurance that I won't be on the medication all my life! Sorry for the long post, and thank you for any replies