I really feel for both of you.
10 days is very early it can take time for the meds to work. I remember wanting them to work like a headache tablet (to just take it away) but they do not work like that. It just takes time and its very gradual.
I also would not want my hubby to keep things from me, I wanted things to carry on as usual around me, otherwise I just felt more guilty for being ill.
It is very difficult to get motivated when depressed, I found it very hard just getting out of bed and getting in the shower was like climbing a mountain. I always felt better once I had done this but it was hard. I was once told its baby steps. Try to give myself a small goal to achieve each day.
I did try hypnotherapy and yes it did help me, but please make sure they are registered. If nothing else it gave me relaxation techniques by doing the regulated breathing, I would do it at home on the bed and I would relax so much I would drift off to sleep.
I would also like to say you are not bothering us, we understand and we are willing to listen and help.
S x